‘’Caron was recommended to me by a friend who had been supported by her. I
was desperately unhappy in my marriage and I wanted to leave. I was suffering terrible
anxiety. I thought my husband was a narcissist and I felt stuck in a no -win situation. I knew I had to tread carefully and I knew you were a divorce coach with experience of coercive control. I literally didn’t know how I could possibly leave and I felt very frightened and worried about what it would mean for the children – was it better for them if I stayed or left, would he turn them against me, would all his friends and family hate me, how would he react?I’ve had 1:1s with Caron and am in her Facebook group, and am doing the next Insights course in February.
To be understood and believed was amazing, and I felt reassured that you had helped many others to leave, that it was possible and it would be ok. You advised me to literally take my time to be ready and work out a step by step plan how to leave. And I did it. I still can’t believe it! Thank you so much, I could not have done it without you.
I live in a lovely rented house in peace, my anxiety is massively reduced. I can remember how scared I was to tell him I was leaving, but I don’t feel it anymore. It has only been 3 months – we have an agreement to share custody of the children. The children were shocked that I left (not that I wanted to leave) and there have been ups and downs but they are coping. I know I am not going back, the next step is divorce. I know there will be bumps in the road, but I feel like I can do it.
Caron has my back and is always willing to offer support and guidance. I am reconnecting with friends and family. I am getting better at boundaries. My confidence is growing. I’m starting to look forward to the future.‘’
Heather