I was chatting on a couple of webinars recently and wanted to share this one with you here: I catch up with the formidable Lucy who runs website ‘You Don’t Own Me’ or YDOM for short! https://ydom.co.uk/ Lucy started her website to raise awareness on domestic abuse and start those Read more…
I will be joining https://familylawandmediation.co.uk/ as a guest speaker along with fellow Divorce Coach Claire Macklin (was Black) and Fiona Griffin to discuss ‘Domestic Abuse and the Family Court’. The Divorce Support Club is a great way to find out information, get support and ask questions in a safe space. Read more…
In collaboration with Dr. Sue Palmer-Conn and https://www.thedivorcecoachingacademy.com/ I will be delivering domestic abuse training for professionals beginning in September 2023. 3 Levels! There are 3 levels of training to choose from, from basic awareness to Level 3 which delves into diverse and complex abusive relationships, mental health and safeguarding. Read more…
It’s back! With just 50 available spaces, this is a rare chance to connect with other women who understand your experiences and find the vital support and guidance that will empower you to embrace your future with strength and clarity. Come and meet me in person, along with barristers, lawyers, Read more…
Financial abuse is one of the most common tactics used within a controlling relationship. If you have no financial independence or access to your own money, it’s harder for you to leave, right? You often don’t even realise that you are being financially abused either. It can be very subtle. Read more…
Background Helen contacted me when feeling overwhelmed after years of litigation with her ex-husband. With a demanding job and 2 young children to support, it was a lot to deal with and she was exhausted. Helen was facing court hearings and constant emotional abuse and manipulation by her ex. This Read more…
There is a hole in my sidewalk, by Portia Nelson. “I walk down the street. There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. I fall in. I am lost… I am helpless. It isn’t my fault. It takes forever to find a way out. I walk down the same street. Read more…
Recognising abuse in any relationship can be difficult because often the tactics are so subtle. As well as the generic types of tactics abusers use (constant criticism, belittling, financial abuse, conflict over the children etc ) there are often tactics used within LGBTQ relationships, which are very specific. Tactics you Read more…
From 6th April 2023, people who are experiencing domestic abuse, rape or sexual assault will be allowed to request the support of an IDVA (Independent Domestic Violence Advocate) or ISVA (Independent Sexual Violence Advocate) in Civil Court proceedings . The IDVA or ISVA can provide emotional support, information, practical support Read more…
Letting your ‘soon to be ex’ know that you want to separate is daunting at the best of times, but when you need to tell a partner who is controlling/abusive, it can be very scary. However, you don’t really have an option if you want to move on – they Read more…